After
reading articles like this I
strongly feel that we Indians have
no respect left for our country or
for us. Day in and day out one comes
across such comments like this that
"Our country is bad ", or "We are
backward and have no sense of
cleanliness" etc.
I agree all this is present in our
country but then just by advertising
it at a top voice will solve no
problem. I think all these are part
and parcel of a growing country.
Each and every country goes through
its teething problem on the road to
modernization and so India is also
going through it. So if there are
people who drug you with coffee on
the highway then there are people
who will go out of their way to help
you to reach your destination.
I feel we have developed a love to
criticize our country and we don't
leave any single second to find the
flaw in it. Is it because we don't
respect ourselves? Or is it we feel
just by criticizing our country we
become too modern in thinking?
If our country is so bad and people
are so bad then why that now at this
time the whole world is singing
praise for it? Why suddenly all the
important nations have started
noticing India? Things made from
India are sold in bulks in USA and
believe me they are a craze here not
only among Indians but also among
the Americans. The food, yoga,
clothes, jewelry - everything from
India is in demand. So how can we
say that our country is bad and one
has to be very careful when you come
here?
Which country is safe in that way?
Name it and we find crime and
criminals everywhere. You go to
Mexico and before you blink you will
be cheated by someone. Even in USA
people flick things and one has to
very careful while going out in
night to lonely places. What I mean
to stress is the fact that we are
not the only one where people have
to be careful while coming. One has
to be careful anywhere they go
whether in India or USA.
I would like to congratulate Mr.
Dubey for fighting for his rights at
the Mumbai station. Such courageous
acts only can check the attempts of
criminals.
I would like to quote one line from
a Hindi poetry I read it in school.
Forgive me if I am wrong:
"Us Insan se patthar accha jo aaye
desh ke kam nahin" - Seema
Jyotishi - Apr. 6, 2006
There were reports of a pervert
walking around with a syringe full
of AIDS infected blood so cover your
rear with steel plates when you walk
around in Mumbai. While in
Maharashtra, walk around with an
umbrella. You never know when
migratory birds will fly over your
head and target you with their bird
flu virus filled droppings. If you
see a chicken run for your dear
life.
Please do not frighten people. The
ordinary precautions one takes
anywhere like not trusting/ eating
with complete strangers, watching
how much one pays etc. are to be
observed in India too. I am yet to
meet another person who had the Rs.
500/= vs. Rs. 100/= trick pulled on
him. How many do other PD readers
know? If you look unsure, thoughtful
or confused you qualify as a likely
target anywhere by being too
tempting for the foxes. Foxes are
found worldwide so that precaution
is for all times.
As regards tearing papers out of
passports, this is the first time I
ever heard that. I do not know if
other PD readers have had such an
experience. If it happens to anyone
he / she must raise an alarm then
and there, catch the fella with the
torn pages and then pursue the case
to the highest level to have the
offending officer kicked out.
Come on you are talking about your
home country. A few unscrupulous
rascals should not make visiting
India a frightening prospect for
you. - Rajesh Chaubey - Apr. 6,
2006
We love our motherland to such an
extent that we cannot quantify it.
Being a responsible Indian, it is
our duty to be alert and let qui
vive fellow citizens from the vices
of society. It is true that most of
us are wary of the points listed in
this article, but on reminding these
incidences, we endure ever-ready and
watchful. If we dodge by assuming
"what the outer world will say" or "Dunia
kya kahegi" or "Log kya kehenge,"
then we fool ourselves and help no
one. We need to highlight
religiously other social vices like
child abuses to make people watchful
and the offenders fearful and
debasing.
After recent nuclear deal, the US
President, in several press
conferences, emphasizes the phrase
"India is special, because India has
free PRESS." He never says India is
clean, but is open and openness
matters. We know every society has
curses, but a society that fights
against odds with élan is more
respectful in a contemporary world.
If a person has not met the fate
that doesn't mean incidences are not
happening. We are fortunate if we
are free from troubles. But not
everyone is equally blessed. Thus,
for our betterment, we should
comprehend from others suffering,
spotlight it and let others aware to
repel the repercussions. -
Tarakeswar Dubey - Apr. 7, 2006
I appreciate Mr. Dubey's effort in
warning people. I for one had to
face the 500 and 100 trick at Bombay
airport. I would suggest taking a
pre booked taxi at Bombay airport
rather than taxis from outside the
airport. had i read this article
before i would have been more
careful. And yes I'll be more
cautious with my passport. -
Shashank Prasad - Apr. 7, 2006
I agree with Mr. Rajesh Chaubey.
Being an Indian citizen, I love my
country but at the same time I will
be careful. I never knew that things
happen at the airport also. I will
be careful with that. Reading
articles like this helps to be more
careful in a particular situation. -
Manju - Apr.7, 2006
I think this is an excellent work to
put together some important
information. Instead of praising the
author, people are commenting in the
negative. What I have figured out is
that no one likes to hear anything
about our own demerits. We must
praise the country but this is a
forum where we Indians, especially
Biharis, surf and put our thoughts.
We must accept what is wrong with
India and unless we raise our
voices, all that will happen is
those people who are doing wrong
will do more wrong.
The way people are objecting, it
seems we should protect all the
criminals and give them a tag of
best person of the year or life time
achievement award. I am sure if all
these things happen to these people,
they would have been very angry and
have cursed India a thousand times.
Since nothing happened to them, they
say, "hey, see how many countries
are coming to India, so my country
is good." No. The reason these
countries are coming to India is
because they want just cheaper
labour and that's what we have in
India. Once they will develop
another country, they will walk away
from India. Did you forget none of
these countries were friendly to
India? Do you think they are coming
because you are good? They come
because they want a slave.
I am aware of most of the stuff the
author mentioned, and I try to be
vigilant whenever I visit. I have
mentioned in my posts that once I am
in India, problems start. Once I am
back in the US, I feel secure and
relieved. My feeling about the
article was that it was not
disrespectful to India, but
indicates clearly the kind of
corruption tolerated by the people
and propagated by the politicos. No
country is good or bad on its own,
but it is made good or bad by its
people. I am sure you are dreaming
that the world is praising. In
reality, they found a place to buy
inexpensive stuff: labour, articles,
and blind gratitude. I live in the
USA in a very remote area. I can go
out at anytime without locking my
house and car and have no problem. I
can only dream of the same in India
and Bihar. - S. M. Khurshid Anwar,
New York, USA - Apr. 8, 2006
I
guess the text regarding the first
incident (Aramco's Arifuddin) is
snippet from a mail which was
circulated some time back. I
happened to receive this in my mail
box from some distribution list and
read it with interest. I, in my
personal opinion and without being
biased towards our custom officers,
was still not convinced that this
was done by India custom officer. It
was mentioned that they had six
passports and traveled from KSA to
India before they realized that some
pages were torn off. There was no
convincing reason given that Indian
custom officer did it, but it was
all based on the assumption. Though
the mail claimed that there is a
whole nexus involve in this, I have
never heard any other such incident.
I
have recently witnessed one blatant
carelessness committed by an
immigration officer from one of the
middle east country. In another
incident, there was a news on
Gulfnews that one poor fellow, an
Indian, was harassed at Abu Dhabi
Airport twice for the crime he never
committed. Had this happened at
Mumbai airport, we would have
declared whole India as corrupt and
harassing all of the NRIs landing at
Mumbai airport.
Why do we NRI think that whole of
the Indian machinery are corrupt?
This can not be true since the
system is still working, it has not
completely collapsed. People are
still leading happy life in Bihar
and India and achieving their dream.
In some areas, we are bad and need
to improve but in some, we are
example to the world. I agree that
some of us would have faced some
problem but I don't agree with Mr.
Anwar's statement about Bihar's
situation. The situation is not so
horrible, and no need to be
frightened all the time. - Md.
Aslehullah, Dubai, UAE - Apr. 8,
2006
Khurshidji, it is slightly more
complex than that. Did India develop
cheap labour recently? The recent
rush is fueled by many other
considerations. Please do some
research and do not live in denial.
Whether you like it or not, Asian
countries are rising.
If coming to India creates problems
for you or is inauspicious for you,
go ahead stay away. I am sure India
can develop without you just like US
developed without you. You went to
US only after others had made great
sacrifices to develop that country.
India is developing fast now and I
hope soon it will have the amenities
to make your stay comfortable when
you come. - Rajesh Chaubey - Apr.
8, 2006
Dear Friends,
Please be cautious of your own
language and please do not get
dragged into myriads of arguments
which is no good.
I feel that whatever we assume and
presume is based on some hearsay or
some reality it can be figment of
one's imagination also but where
there is smoke there is fire.
Mr. Chaubey's comments are directed
towards the writer and the comment
maker with an attempt to corner him
but this should not be the virtue of
this forum, sorry Mr. Chaubey I
respect your demeanor and your
articles but this one is more stark
and blatant.
By cautioning people it does not
mean that someone is degrading one's
own country there are black sheep
but that does not mean that the
whole machinery is corrupt!!
We all, the readers and writers on
this forum have never developed any
nation; we are just basking in the
limelight of development but is it
our fault? We were born and are
living in an age when there is
economic dependency and diplomacy,
may be we have not physically
contributed to any movement but we
are contributing by taking jobs far
away from our home and our mothers
and fathers, is it not a sacrifice?
That when there is some trouble in
the family and you are mostly needed
but you never can make it up on
time?
The reason for my writing the above
sentences was to just circle on some
points that were raised and
addressed on this article.
Now coming to the point, Italy is
the most notorious place well known
for mugging at any given time. You
are robbed outside the Milan airport
in a wink, there are staged dramas
where a newcomer is just dragged
into and robbed off his belongings.
Thailand, where I live is noted for
its hospitality and kind people but
often cases of tourist being robbed
and raped and then killed come up,
but does not stop people from
visiting and living here.
Thanks for the caution and we look
forward to more such advices for
protecting ourselves. - Sanjay -
Apr. 10, 2006
Be logical and unbiased. No need to
write in a hurry, expressing
feelings and biases driven by raw
emotions which are not very logical,
and get cornered at leisure. I saw a
gaping hole in the logic and pointed
it out. My intention was never to
corner anyone.
Before we pull the trigger we must
make sure we are holding the gun
right unless we want to commit
suicide. In other words, before we
press the send button let us read
our articles once to remove logical
inconsistencies or tangential
flights of logic from the discussion
at hand.
If we frighten readers with our
logic, or the lack of it, we will
convert PD's Readers Write to
Readers Fright. - Rajesh Chaubey
- Apr. 10, 2006
Dear Mr. Dubey,
When I was reading your article, I
could immediately correlate it with
my experiences. A couple of years
back when I was staying in
Bangalore, I had a similar
experience as yours 500 to 100.
Once, I returned to Bangalore via
train early morning from Chennai. At
the station, took a rickshaw and
came to my house. The fare of 50
bucks was agreed before taking the
rickshaw. At my house, I gave the
driver 50/- note and started picking
up my baggage. He kept the note in
his pocket and asked me for 40/-
more. I asked him for what. Aiming
to create a ruckus, he asserted
curtly "You have given me 10/- only
whereas you had told me to pay
50/-". Moreover, he took out a 10/-
note to prove his point. After some
intense argument, I had to
relinquish and pay him 40/- more.
There I was fleeced and shocked!
After going through several bad
experiences in Bangalore (with Auto
rickshaw drivers most of the time!),
I fortunately got relocated to Pune.
Your airport piece reminds me of how
I was cautioned by my colleagues
before my first official trip
abroad. I still remember I was very
careful while immigration check to
see if the man in front of me tears
off any page from my passport at the
Mumbai airport. Thankfully, it
didn't happen. However, I still
remain vigilant at Mumbai airport.
Would like to thank you for sharing
such a useful piece with us. I can
see that the objective of posting
this article is only to caution the
readers from such untoward incidents
by making them more vigilant. -
Samir Ranjan, Saudi Arabia - Apr.
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